Meet Dean of Students Denise Balfour Simpson

Did you know Denise Balfour Simpson ‘s favorite food is a steak taco or that she is originally from Chicago? Get to know Charlotte’s associate vice chancellor for student affairs and dean of students through the five questions below, asked by Julian Garcia, a senior communications major and intern in the Office of University Communications.

What attracted you to the city of Charlotte?

I’ve been in Charlotte since 2016. I first worked at a different university before moving overseas, then returned during COVID-19. Although some might assume I’m new to UNC Charlotte or the city, I’ve been here for a while. What I love about Charlotte is that it offers many big-city amenities — entertainment, sports, proximity to mountains and beaches — without the downsides like traffic, crime and high taxes. Being originally from Chicago, I appreciate that Charlotte has a lot to offer while still feeling manageable. The food scene is growing too, which is exciting.

What do you love most about UNC Charlotte?

What drew me here? My educational background is rooted in large urban institutions. I did my undergrad at DePaul University in the heart of Chicago; studied at the University of Nevada, Las Vegas, near the strip; and then attended Old Dominion University in Norfolk, a city with a strong military presence. UNC Charlotte is new to me, though I had some familiarity from teaching in the Honors College. What attracted me is the student population — the diversity and lived experiences here mirror my own educational journey. It’s been a smooth transition. I already feel a sense of comfort and connection with students.

What three words do you believe best define your leadership style?

I’d describe myself as authentic, especially in student affairs, where our own experiences shape how we engage with students. I got into this field because I struggled to transition into college initially, but mentors and advisors helped turn things around for me. That experience made me more engaged and proud of my journey, which led me to become a student affairs administrator.

Now, I strive to impart those lessons and support students as they navigate their college experiences —successes, challenges and everything in between. The core of the college experience hasn’t changed: learning, growing, adapting and building resilience. As an administrator, I aim to be a genuine resource and advocate for students.

In my role, I take the work seriously, but not myself. We handle tough situations, like student crises, but my leadership style is transformative. I adapt to what people need—whether it’s my team, students or faculty—by walking alongside them as they find their way, rather than directing them. My background in psychology and communications helps me understand and support people on their unique paths.

What’s the best piece of advice (professional or personal) that you have received?

Don’t be afraid to make mistakes or try new things. As a first-generation college student, I was hesitant to do anything because of fears others projected onto me. I went to college to build a better life and create opportunities, like many first-gen students, but fear held me back.

You are headed to a deserted island. You can take one food, one drink, one book, one song and one movie. What are they and why?

I’d choose two books: anything by James McBride, especially “The Color of Water” and Tricia Hersey’s “Nap Ministry” because intentional rest is important. On a desert island, I’d want meaningful rest without anxiety. For a movie, definitely “The Lion King.” It might sound cheesy, but I really enjoy Jennifer Lopez as an actress, especially in movies like “Monster-in-Law.” I can’t resist steak tacos, and for a song, I’m all about ’80s and ’90s Motown. I’d pick “Maybe Tomorrow” by the Jackson Five, but really, anything by Michael Jackson or Janet Jackson would do.

What do you enjoy doing in your free time?

Outside. I like to be outside. One of the things I love about Charlotte is it has a lot of the big city entertainment stuff. And I live by the Charlotte on the cheap website.